I think the same happening here, you STBX is too quick on dumping a good husband for a fantasy that may as well blow up in her face, her answers are typical self convincing that what she is doing is the right thing, disengage, go out meet new girls, a 40yo that is coming out of a LTR is an extremely hot commodity in the market, I bet you will not be single for long. I had a acquaintance that had gone trough the same thing with his wife, she found another man, and up and left him out of the blue Walk away style, no reconciliation, straight to divorce and went living with the other man, he was shell shocked devastated but pick up very quickly and started dating within a short time, within a year he was engaged to be married to his new girlfriend, she on the other hand, her new sparkling relationship did not lasted and within the year it folded over, she started to get out of her fog shortly after he (her ex) announced his engagement to his girlfriend, boy that was not a pretty sight, her realization moment was devastating to her, she needed extreme counseling when the gravity of what she has done hit her,she met with her ex trying to get him back, well too late for her, he (her ex) wanted nothing to do with getting back to her, very sad. Let her crash, run a strong detachment and 180 on herģ months is a very long time in affair terms, as I said and many others here, I seriously doubt that the OM will dump his family and kids for her, I am a father myself and no matter what would have happened, I will never never give up on my kids and family, the first thing I would do is try to keep my family together, all OM wants is a shag nothing more, he will lie to her that he told his wife, will meet her in 3 months and will disappear the same way he came.
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